Planning a wedding is a lot of work. Most of us have not put together a large event with so many details – great and small. Fortunately, I’ve spent time planning large scale events so I’m not intimidated by the size of this project. I am, however, considering the unique set of challenges presented by our wedding taking place in Greece.
I don’t speak Greek for, one thing. For two and three: We are living in Gibraltar at the moment AND we’re building our house in Greece. This house will serve as the reception venue. To make long distance, bilingual planning a bit smoother, we’ve hired a wedding planner and the building of the house has become a family project to ensure it has a chance of being ready in time. Needless to say, there’s a lot of work ahead!
You may be wondering what all this has to do with the designing of my wedding dress. Well, I’m actually a very practical bride, at least in my own opinion. When consulting with Lara, she asked me what I had in mind for a gown. I started to take a closer look at all the factors…
It will be hot; the reception is outdoors and the terrain could be rough as the grounds of the property may not be fully landscaped; even if they are, the house is located on the sea with a rocky shoreline and steep walkways; the area is known to be windy.
I need to think about the culture of the wedding. Being in a church means that shoulders should be covered and, as much as I love my body art, my tattoos are private. I do not wish for them to be on full display. Like every bride, I want to feel pretty but I also want to be able to sit and enjoy the huge dinner we’re planning. And, of course, I’ll have a 4 months old baby to take care of which means there are some Mom Duties I’ll need to tend to.
Here’s what I’ve come up with for a storyboard of design details and requests I would like Lara to consider when she is working on the designs:
Some kind of sleeve – this will cover a tattoo on my arm and be best for our church wedding
A slim or a-line silhouette – I do love full skirts though and being tall, feel I can pull off some volume but I’m thinking of the wind
I’m open to a train and not opposed to something longer if it can be put up into a bustle. Ladies, when else can we have such a thing? Same goes for veils but accessories are something for another post
I’m very open to colour – That being said… something in white, ivory, champagne or blush would be preferred but since I’m also a fan of the reLove, I will consider just about anything.
Ditto the above for fabric
When in doubt, I prefer simple and elegant as opposed to bling and fuss
I’m not a designer and would prefer not to limit or interfere with Lara’s creativity in any way so all of the above guidelines are flexible. Most brides may feel the need to be more ‘hands on’ and try to control what a designer creates but I think that negates the whole point of commissioning a design. I’ve done my research, we’ve established a range for a budget and I know Lara’s style and impeccable skill – I feel very good about leaving this in her capable hands!
If you’re reading this blog, you’ve seen the illustrations Lara has posted for her monthly frocks and the thought of seeing one of those sketches for a dress of my very own actually keeps me awake at night like a kid before Christmas. I seriously can’t wait!!!
:)Pauline
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